Allison had her two year checkup when we got back to KC and while her doctor was impressed at how well she's doing, he was not impressed with her behavior. I told him I didn't know how to work with her and he told me that it was "time to start disciplining her." I don't know why I didn't think about punishing her when she whines. I would ask, then tell, her to stop, but I never thought about punishment.
Then he told me to just ignore her when she's yelling/ being crazy. He did it while we were in the office and (eventually) she just found something else to do.
I've been working on giving her time-outs every time she whines and she is getting better, but now she is finding new ways to test me.
Today, I was weeding the garden in the front yard. She was getting too close to the yard so I told her to back and when she kept inching forward, I pulled her back. SHE.LOST. HER. MIND. She screamed, cried, kicked, took off all her clothes (diaper included) while she rolled in the grass crying like a maniac. I sat on the porch and watched the scene. A motorist and a cyclist actually stopped to see if everything was ok.
She didn't tire herself out and once she started throwing up, I knew it had gone too far. I brought her in the house, put new clothes on her and let her finish crying inside the house. I put a blanket over her to muffle the sounds - and eventually she passed out of the hardwood floor.


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